No, it's not a good therapy method but sometime, it feels like all you have left to fall back on. I know he's trying to numb feelings. I wish I could suggest an alternative for him, but I can't. Do you think we should ask? It's been eating me alive wondering if I should, but I don't know if I even want to hear what some future self of me has done when I did't even get to that bit of my life yet. But then, it has to be weird for him, right?